Wednesday, 7 May 2014

Continue or Take a Break?


Life is a jigsaw puzzle each piece must be handled carefully to complete the puzzle. Handling relationship nowdays has become a major task for most of the people. It is difficult to find spare time in the busy hectic schdule of the day. People get irritated, they over react, get pissed off and usually indulge in fight which ultimately turns out to be negative. The problem is both the persons are adamant and they never accept their mistakes. Each one of them defend their errands and blame each other instead of realizing the fact that problem is arising because of mistakes made by both. At this point of time people usually get confused whether they should continue or put a hault to their relationship for some time. All negative thoughts surround their mind and they feel completely lost. Which way to go becomes the major question. Thought of losing the friend in their partner too haunts them and losing the person they love gives them nightmares. Trust is the basis of relationship and rest all other things are minor factors that affect a relationship. The bond of love is made up of faith, trust and care. Giving time to each, sharing lives with each, having concern for other person matters but based on these we can't judge how much a person love the other one. Relationships are not formalities or rules which people have to follow. If you dont feel like talking don't talk it's not a compulsion. If you are busy and can't meet your partner should understand and should not be upset about it. At times the person is not answering your calls, instead of bugging him again and over again we should understand his/her situation and wait for him/her to call back. Meetings and time are not the measures which define relationship. People come in relationship because they like the company of each other, because they feel most comfortable sharing stuffs with each other, because they fill voids of each others life and because they feel perfect together. Relationships are not chains tied to people's foot, every person has their own say. At some point in our lives we all come across this situation and we question ourselves should we continue or should we take a break?

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