Continue or Take a Break?

Life is a jigsaw puzzle each piece must be handled carefully to complete the puzzle. Handling relationship nowdays has become a major task for most of the people. It is difficult to find spare time in the busy hectic schdule of the day. People get irritated, they over react, get pissed off and usually indulge in fight which ultimately turns out to be negative. The problem is both the persons are adamant and they never accept their mistakes. Each one of them defend their errands and blame each other instead of realizing the fact that problem is arising because of mistakes made by both. At this point of time people usually get confused whether they should continue or put a hault to their relationship for some time. All negative thoughts surround their mind and they feel completely lost. Which way to go becomes the major question. Thought of losing the friend in their partner too haunts them and losing the person they love gives them nightmares. Trust is the basis of relationship and rest all other things are minor factors that affect a relationship. The bond of love is made up of faith, trust and care. Giving time to each, sharing lives with each, having concern for other person matters but based on these we can't judge how much a person love the other one. Relationships are not formalities or rules which people have to follow. If you dont feel like talking don't talk it's not a compulsion. If you are busy and can't meet your partner should understand and should not be upset about it. At times the person is not answering your calls, instead of bugging him again and over again we should understand his/her situation and wait for him/her to call back. Meetings and time are not the measures which define relationship. People come in relationship because they like the company of each other, because they feel most comfortable sharing stuffs with each other, because they fill voids of each others life and because they feel perfect together. Relationships are not chains tied to people's foot, every person has their own say. At some point in our lives we all come across this situation and we question ourselves should we continue or should we take a break?

Crack :D

This one for yuh Crack :D

Friends are many, few are fake, few are good, few become besties and few become an inseparable part of your life. Yuh are one of them ,without whom my life is incomplete. 

A friend is someone who know the truth behind your lies , see tears hidden in your smile, feels on cloud nine when you are happy, feels sad when you are sad and his heart breaks when see you crying. Do everything to make you smile without expecting anything in return. Heed to all your problems and give crazy solutions. Sharing becomes easier when friends like you are with me. You have always encouraged me and made me smile whenever i felt low. Music connects us plus cartoons too. I guess the first time we talked it was because of your sketch of Goku. I'm very happy you sketch else i would have missed the chance of meeting such an amazing person. Giving compliments laughing over silly talks making fun and sharing songs is us. We care we share although we talk less and type more :p but our bond of friendship is strong enough to bear all the hindrances. We are text buddies ehehhehe :D Well you always give me compliments and now its my turn you have always helped in everything. Just by reading my mess you can tell whether i'm happy or sad. Its very difficult for everyone to detect that. Everyone wish to have a friend like you and i'm lucky to have you by my side. Don't know when and how our stupid silly talks converted into sensible ones. Don't know how my trust start building in you and i shared a part of my life with you. You are sweet amazing sensitive trustworthy and one of my bestest buddy. Don't wanna lose you ever.

Friends are easy to find but friends like you are gifted to only few people. Thank You for being there always. You always stood my side and was there whenever i needed a friend. Playing singing talking everything is fun with you. Well i guess our meeting was already planned because there are thousands of people who cross are paths everyday but only few remain there permanently. Hope our bond stay like this foreva and many more precious moments add in our lives. 

And i guess i typed correctly today :p you won't have any problem in reading words heheh..and ya bye :p

Always here whenever you need me and i know you are there too.. I have your back and you have mine :)

Friendship is not about whom you have known the longest,

Its about who came and never left your side..

Thanx for everything :)

Sukkad :D

Value of a person is not known until he or she leaves your life. But sometimes it takes your entire life to show how much important that one person is for you.

FRIENDSHIP..
Don't know how to define but i guess you are the one who taught me the meaning of true friendship.
Doing everything for the other person without having any expectations.
Making them burst into laughter when they are just about to cry.
Lighten their mood when they are tensed.
Cracking pj's just to see a smile on their sad faces.
Listening to all their nonsense without saying a word.
Teasing them with the persons name they don't like at all.
Stand by their side when they feel alone in the middle of the crowd.
Walk with them when they just want to be alone.
Never abandon or leave them no matter what.
Fight over silly stuff and then give a treat to finish the fight.
Scold on the wrong things they do.
Laugh when they fall but on the other hand hold their hands to pick us again.
Cry when they cry and smile when they smile..

It's difficult to have such people in our lives and i'm blessed to have a friend like you.
Well usually i don't say , and yuh should know why..becoz i can't express uff..
Yuh are the most wonderful and precious gift God has blessed me with.
Well we were acquaintances and now i guess i'm promoted right ?
You always stood by my side no matter what. Whenever i called, yuh were in front of me within a fraction of seconds. Whenever my mood was off , u always brought a smile on my face either with your pj's or by texting and making stupid faces. Scolded me whenever i did something wrong. I know kabhi kabhi gussa me ho jata hai yr hehehe. You always listened to all my stories and all stupid nonsense. By God talent hai tujme sab pagal ho jaate hai :D I know i'm cranky sometimes , my anger not good and i say things which i should not say but still you listen and bear all my worst moods. You eat chilly garlic noodles even though you don't like it at all. You teach me although tuje kch ni aata and ya mene padhya tha isliy tra pointer aaya ta :p
We fight we stop talking we shout and irritate each other but in the end our friendship still remains the same.
Because i count on you.I trust you and can share anything with you. You my secret keeper too :p
Assignments HCf noodles choclates and treats on small small things , this is our friendship. Don't know about you but i never wana lose a friend like you. Bahut kam item hai tere jase. Don't know kya hta mera tere bina.
Always be there for me Sukkad. And i'm always here for yuh.

-Piddi  
  

Friend or Foe ?

They know your every secret..
They know every part of your life, your past or present..
They know when you are hurt when you are gonna shatter down..
They know what you feel..
They know where your heart belongs..
They know your happiness, your sorrows..
We call them friends..
But are they really your friends?
They know each side of yuh yet take advantage of yuh...
They know how to make u smile but  fill your eyes with tears...
They know how to manipulate you or make you angry..
They know you are hurt but prefer to remain silent...
They know you need them still they leave you..
They know all your secrets and you still say plz kip it to yourself...
They care for yuh but you are not as important as the other person is..
They are there for yuh but when you need a shoulder to cry on they are irritated because of your tears..
They shout on you just because you wiped their tears instead of their best friend..
At one point of time you are the person they can't live without and at the same point you are the person they can't stand..
Friend or Foe?
Choice is yours ..
Either blindly trust them or try to make a difference ...
Mistake is not their's..it is our mistake we made people stay in our lives far more longer than they deserved..
Be with people who fills your life with happiness and not with the ones who treat you just as an option..
Friend or Foe both teach us that lesson of life which no book can teach...

Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage

The concept of marriage has changed over time.In most of families still the concept of arrange marriage is prominent. They still don't want their children to b married to the love of their life. The whole taboo behind this is WHAT WILL SOCIETY THINK? Society is made by us, we the people make society and if norms of this society drives our happiness away from us then there is no place for such society in our lives. Parents feel ashamed just because their daughter or son is in love with someone else. Family members speak ill of the girl or the boy and don't let them to marry their love just because they were not able to marry the person they loved. When it is the time for parents to stand for their children, they stand against them just because of the stupid remarks or comments made by society. If happiness of children matters the most to their family, instead of leaving the girl or boy alone they should stand with them and fight against the whole world. 
Love marriage or arrange marriage
How can we marry a person just after meeting the person once or twice, It takes years to know about a person and our parents wants us to decide after one meeting or two.We know our parents won't choose a wrong person for us but if by chance they choose the wrong one. What if he is not the person she wanted , what if he don't understand her, what if he don't value her and what if he is not the one for her. She live her whole life in despair and darkness and shatter each day. She now blame her family for what happened to her, the society blames her family for what they did to her, no one will be there to empathize them and they will be the culprit not the society.They will be unhappy not the society, society or people will just mock them.
On the other hand if she is allowed to marry the person she love, she knows about the boy, his family. She will be happy and if anything happens to her, she know it'z her mistake not her parents or family.She know his strength his weakness and he knows everything about her. People will speak but forget after few days months or years but girl is happy and that is more important.
Maybe reverse may happen, arrange marriage may be more successful than love one. May be the person parents choose was far better than the one she loved. And she is more happy with the person she is married to rather than the person she use to cry all nights and she thought she was in love with. 
Parents must always consider their children choice first. If the person is right and they know he or she can keep their child happy they must let them marry without thinking of the society or people after all it'z there children happiness what matters to them most. And if the person is not right they should make their children understand instead of forcing them to marry someone else.And believe me they will marry the person of their parents choice, after all for every child, smile of his or her parents matters the most.
Love cum Arranged or Arranged cum Love . Still confused.
A funny line quoted by most of the youngsters nowadays " It is better to marry your own boyfriend or girlfriend rather than marrying someone else "

Dreamz..

Day or night it is you with whose thoughts my mind is preoccupied..
Whether i'm awake or sleeping it is you whose face is always in front of my eyes..
Don't know what you have done to me but i can't spend a single moment without thinking about you..
Your stupid talks are senseless but everything makes sense to me..
I laugh when you smile..I smile when i see you..
I feel butterflies when our eyes accidentally meet..
A chill speeds down my backbone when our hands collide..
Act stupid when you are around and hate it when you pay attention to others when your attention is the only thing i want..
Your smile is heavenly..every time i see you smile i fall for you again and over again..
A single text from you makes me smile ..
Even in my worst mood , you are the one who can make me smile..
You know everything about me..
My likes dislikes..what i do when my mood is off..when i'm irritated when i m sad and how to wipe my tears..
Standing by my side like a shadow of me..Always helped me never said no..
Don't know what charm you have..
It'z just my dreams are full of you..
You are in my every dream..
Every song relates to you..
My every dream is related to you..
Even a single thought of you makes me smile..
Actually your name brings a smile on my lips..
Maybe in real world you are not mine..But in dreams you are just mine..
If dreams are so beautiful i wish i never wake up...
You are my dream...

Mr Pink ...

Everyday we meet someone new 

few become friends, few stay till the end, few ignore and few just leave..

While waiting in the cab after college as usual met someone who just cant be described in words..

He is synonym of jolly..

Can make anyone smile, actually people burst out laughing when he start his stories..

English party songs are his favorite but has a collection of romantic Hindi too.. 

Nobody can judge when he is serious and when he actually is people just laugh..

Smile looks beautiful on people's face and he is the one delivering it to tons of people..

Has weakness for bunnies but love all kind of bunnies..

Never tensed or sad but when he is lost in thoughts you can see on his face..

Flip topics, looks distracted and never look in the eyes of the person talking to and starts playing with his watch..

He has no clue when a girl gives him hint...He is always confused..

Always think this is the last time now its high time to study...

And there is always some girl who takes his heart away..

Always ready to impart me knowledge although i don't need but he still think it is important..

You will never understand the concept of staring believe me..

Loves chocolate specially Perk and that too glucose one..

I guess his life fanda is too fill lives of people with smile...

He is sweet, simple, fun loving guy in whose company nobody gets bored ..

Tension and stress are not in his life's dictionary until and unless there are exams..

People like you are difficult to find in this world where everyone fills others life with tears on the contrary you fill with smiles..

Lucky to have you as my friend..Mr Pink :p