Friend or Foe ?

They know your every secret..
They know every part of your life, your past or present..
They know when you are hurt when you are gonna shatter down..
They know what you feel..
They know where your heart belongs..
They know your happiness, your sorrows..
We call them friends..
But are they really your friends?
They know each side of yuh yet take advantage of yuh...
They know how to make u smile but  fill your eyes with tears...
They know how to manipulate you or make you angry..
They know you are hurt but prefer to remain silent...
They know you need them still they leave you..
They know all your secrets and you still say plz kip it to yourself...
They care for yuh but you are not as important as the other person is..
They are there for yuh but when you need a shoulder to cry on they are irritated because of your tears..
They shout on you just because you wiped their tears instead of their best friend..
At one point of time you are the person they can't live without and at the same point you are the person they can't stand..
Friend or Foe?
Choice is yours ..
Either blindly trust them or try to make a difference ...
Mistake is not their's..it is our mistake we made people stay in our lives far more longer than they deserved..
Be with people who fills your life with happiness and not with the ones who treat you just as an option..
Friend or Foe both teach us that lesson of life which no book can teach...

Love Marriage or Arranged Marriage

The concept of marriage has changed over time.In most of families still the concept of arrange marriage is prominent. They still don't want their children to b married to the love of their life. The whole taboo behind this is WHAT WILL SOCIETY THINK? Society is made by us, we the people make society and if norms of this society drives our happiness away from us then there is no place for such society in our lives. Parents feel ashamed just because their daughter or son is in love with someone else. Family members speak ill of the girl or the boy and don't let them to marry their love just because they were not able to marry the person they loved. When it is the time for parents to stand for their children, they stand against them just because of the stupid remarks or comments made by society. If happiness of children matters the most to their family, instead of leaving the girl or boy alone they should stand with them and fight against the whole world. 
Love marriage or arrange marriage
How can we marry a person just after meeting the person once or twice, It takes years to know about a person and our parents wants us to decide after one meeting or two.We know our parents won't choose a wrong person for us but if by chance they choose the wrong one. What if he is not the person she wanted , what if he don't understand her, what if he don't value her and what if he is not the one for her. She live her whole life in despair and darkness and shatter each day. She now blame her family for what happened to her, the society blames her family for what they did to her, no one will be there to empathize them and they will be the culprit not the society.They will be unhappy not the society, society or people will just mock them.
On the other hand if she is allowed to marry the person she love, she knows about the boy, his family. She will be happy and if anything happens to her, she know it'z her mistake not her parents or family.She know his strength his weakness and he knows everything about her. People will speak but forget after few days months or years but girl is happy and that is more important.
Maybe reverse may happen, arrange marriage may be more successful than love one. May be the person parents choose was far better than the one she loved. And she is more happy with the person she is married to rather than the person she use to cry all nights and she thought she was in love with. 
Parents must always consider their children choice first. If the person is right and they know he or she can keep their child happy they must let them marry without thinking of the society or people after all it'z there children happiness what matters to them most. And if the person is not right they should make their children understand instead of forcing them to marry someone else.And believe me they will marry the person of their parents choice, after all for every child, smile of his or her parents matters the most.
Love cum Arranged or Arranged cum Love . Still confused.
A funny line quoted by most of the youngsters nowadays " It is better to marry your own boyfriend or girlfriend rather than marrying someone else "